Fancy and Formal: Black-Tie Wedding Dresses and Suits

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Black-tie events are probably one of the most popular types of formal gatherings, where elegance and grandeur meet, creating a luxurious and timeless experience that is unforgettable and truly exceptional. From the venue and wedding guest dress code down to the food and design elements, everything is well thought out and carefully curated to fit the vision. Couples who want to celebrate their love in a sophisticated and elevated fashion typically go for a black-tie wedding.

White-tie vs Black-tie Wedding

White-tie events are usually reserved for royalty and high society – think of tailcoats and white bow ties for the gentlemen and ball gowns with white gloves for the ladies. Tradition and etiquette are rigidly observed, and privacy and security are of utter importance.

Although still considered a highly formal affair, a black-tie wedding has a more relaxed ambiance than its white-tie counterpart. A black-tie wedding tones it down a notch, with more versatility for styling and fashion choices. Decorum followed but not as rigid, with more room for modern interpretations of old traditions.

Black-tie Wedding Dress Code for Women

For black-tie weddings, women are expected to don a floor-length gown made with high-quality fabric. Popular choices include silk and velvet for their rich and luxurious texture that gives off a natural shimmering sheen that adds to the aesthetic appeal. Silk and velvet also drape beautifully to all body types, perfect for any design or silhouette.

Unlike white-tie weddings, there is more flexibility when it comes to the gown color. Dark and rich shades like blues and black are popular, but jewel tones such as dark greens and deep reds are also welcome. As for the accessories, jewelry can be more understated and low-key, while the shoes should be comfortable. Closed-toe heels and stilettos would be ideal. To cap off the overall look, elegant and polished make-up and hairstyle are a must, like a sleek updo or ponytail.

It may not be as strict as a white-tie wedding, but this dress code is not limited to the guests. For the attire, the mother of the bride dress and bridesmaids’ gowns are also expected to align with the requirements.

Black-tie Wedding Dress Code for Men

Just like the black-tie wedding dress code for women, the men's dress code gives more freedom in terms of fashion choices for this kind of affair. Tailcoats are now replaced by a form-fitting tuxedo with satin lapels. The standard color would be black, but navy or dark blue is also acceptable. A plain white wing-collar dress shirt is a must, but one with a turn-down collar will also do. Men may choose to go the classic route with a black bow tie or break a little bit of tradition by opting for a necktie. To complete the look, patent leather shoes should be worn along with cufflinks and a pocket square. Men should come properly groomed and sharp, with a neatly trimmed beard and slicked-back hair. 

One rule about the gentlemen’s dress code for a black-tie event: the men’s suit and vest must adhere to the event’s formality. The suit should be a tuxedo, and the vest must match in material and color. A regular business suit will not cut it. 

Black-tie Wedding Dress Options for Women

Here are some black-tie dress options for the ladies at the celebration. 

Designer Mother of the Bride Dress  

 

velvet dress

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This velvet creation exudes quiet elegance that fits the mother of the bride perfectly. Made with lush velvet that highlights the body beautifully. The asymmetrical neckline gives it a modern twist while the beaded cuffs add a touch of glam to the whole look. 

Find more elegant mother of the bride dresses for a black-tie wedding available at Mondressy.

Bridesmaid Dress

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Sleek and sexy, this satin number screams quiet sophistication perfect for a black-tie celebration. It gives off a pretty sheen adding to the natural glow of the wearer, with a spicy low cowl back for a little peep of skin. Features a floor-length skirt that flows beautifully with every move.

Wedding Guest Dress

velvet wedding guest dress

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Understated beauty in rich jewel-tone fabric, you get the best of both worlds with this dress. Made with soft velvet and features a daring neckline and a flowy skirt.

Black-tie Wedding Tuxedo Options for Men

Groomsmen Attire

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Classic look for a dapper gent. This 3-piece tuxedo set is a whole new level of refinement. Tailored fit to perfection to give any wearer the ultimate confidence boost.

Check out more men’s suit and vest options at Mondressy.

Guest Attire

velvet men's suit

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Add a sprinkle of fun to formality with this blue velvet jacket. Pair with a good pair of formal trousers, a black bow tie, and patent leather shoes and you’re good to go.

Attending a formal event like a black-tie wedding can be a daunting task, regardless of whether you are part of the bridal party or just an invited guest. The key to making your outfit work is finding one that adheres to the rules but still provides the level of comfort you need to enjoy the whole affair. Even though this is a formal celebration, don’t be afraid to add your own twist to your look, be it an accessory or a non-traditional shade of fabric. Looking like a million dollars is important, but feeling comfortable is just as essential.